A patient tells the nurse, "I have been thinking that everyone would be better off without me. I have my father's pistol at home." What is the nurse's most appropriate response?
- A"Let's talk about something more positive to take your mind off this."
- B"I will keep this between us so you feel safe talking to me."
- C"Are you thinking about killing yourself, and do you have a plan?"
- D"You have so much to live for — think about how your family would feel."
Show the answer and why the others fail
Answer: C. "Are you thinking about killing yourself, and do you have a plan?"
- A
- Changing the subject is avoidance; it invalidates the patient and forfeits critical assessment information.
- B
- Confidentiality cannot be promised when there is risk of serious harm; the nurse has a duty to involve the treatment team.
- C — correct
- Direct, explicit questioning about suicidal intent and plan is the evidence-based approach. It does not increase risk, and it is required to assess lethality — access to a firearm makes this a high-risk situation demanding immediate safety measures.
- D
- Reassurance and guilt-inducing appeals shut down disclosure and do not address immediate lethality.
TakeawayAsk about suicide directly and specifically — asking does not plant the idea, and plan plus means access defines the level of risk.